A team of researchers is studying the concept of forgiveness. They suggest that all situations and conditions are not same; likewise, it is not always wise to forget issues during married and forgiving the other partner.
It has been advised that at times, instead of handling a relationship with patience, one needs to show up anger. However, that is only for the betterment of the relationship going through a problem, but the anger needs to be short-lived, followed by a healthy conversation, which will lay basis for a long-lasting relation.
This aspect is simply a part of a major study being conducted to acknowledge the reasons behind the success and failure of relationship. This will help provide a better insight as to how close relations have a role to play in our health.
However, till date findings of several researches suggest that in majority of the cases while handling a relationship, it is better to be positive, optimists and of forgiving nature.
Despite, being positive and seeing relationships falling, James McNulty started to find out what positivity in a relation has ultimately to pay. He discovered that in a few cases of marriages, forgiveness could lead to unintentional negative effects. Depending on the incidents, McNulty suggests that one should be angry or forgive the partner.